When it comes to forgiving on a rational level, I say that it is easier because you can look at people (narcissists, flying monkeys, and enablers) and see that most of them are not as aware of themselves as they think they are.
The precocious kidult narcissist: “I wonder if I can fu*k up this person’s life, for NO REASON?” (Awkwardly tilts their head to the side as they wonder.)
I have noticed in our community (the community of people abused and hurt by narcissists) that there is a strong desire to hurt the narcissist.
Jealous people, much like stupid people, are unaware of their actions. Jealous people don’t know that they are jealous, and I will prove it.
Self-development will be able to save you from the destruction that is shame, hatred, vengeance, and depression. It is not uncommon for many of us who have been discarded by a narcissist to feel as we are nothing.
So, before I begin, allow me to address the title and make it very clear that I AM NOT ATTACKING or coming off aggressively.
There is a misunderstanding at a very high number of people who are using “No Contact” as a means to punish their narcissist. They are using going “No Contact” as a means to hurt the narcissist and to teach the narcissist how to behave.
These people live their lives (false life) through other people. So broken and so unsure of who they are, they have a strong desire to BOND, not connect, with other people.
So you want to marry your narcissists? Marrying a narcissist can bring so much joy and pleasure into your life. Oh! You don’t believe me? You say “that is just silly talk?” Well, allow me to give you seven good reasons as to why you should be married to a narcissistic man or married to …
It is in the dark times, the lonely hours of our existence, the moments of getting knocked down that our strength is revealed to us. However, for many of us, who have just left a narcissistic relationship. We often feel weak, helpless, hopeless, foolish, and broken.