Narcissists are offended by people who have self-love. Learn to cultivate the skill of loving yourself UNCONDITIONALLY in a world full of people wanting you to hate yourself.
I want you to imagine spending the next five, ten, twenty years you have left to live. I want you to imagine that for the duration of this time, instead of moving on after your split with your narcissist the time that you had left, you spent it hating.
Self-hatred is a plague on society. Many people that we interact with on a daily basis who seem angry, rude, crude, upset, and just annoying to be around are in fact people who are just hurt, angry and full of self-hatred.
For many of us, the anger we have is not only directed toward the narcissists, but a massive amount of hatred is directed back at ourselves. We have an enormous amount of contempt for ourselves for being used, manipulated, mistreated, lied to, smeared against, character assassinated, and just having a portion of our lives vandalized.
No matter what you do in life. People Will Hate You no matter what! You can save the world 1000 times over and there will be hate. You can cure all the diseases on the planet, and there will be hate. And you can sacrifice your life so that everyone could live a heavenly and happy life…and there will still be hatred.
Going no contact will save not only your sanity but also your life. Here are five people you need to ignore during no contact. Interacting with any of these negative people below will ONLY help the narcissist string you back into their insanity.
Enablers Of Narcissists: Hey man! You just gotta…you know. Learn to forgive and love, man. Groovy. Just…you know, let them back into your life, man. You know. Kill hatred with love, man. You know. Break the cycle dude. You know. Peace and love, man. You know!”
Narcissists Are Reality-TV Stars. In this interview a narcissist has it in for another guy in the same house they live in. How will he deal with his issue?
Forgive and forget. This is what so many people tell us. Just accept and move on. As callous and as annoying as it may sound, there is a great amount of power in this statement. Moving on is never easy. Especially when the narcissist has put so many of us through hell.
In a hospital lies a person, beaten, broken, shattered, humiliated, and on the verge of death. They had been initially been driven mad into fighting back against a narcissist in their life. On their hospital bed, they find out that they are handcuffed to the bed and that there is a police officer outside their room.