What get’s many of us to crumble, to hurt, to fall, to sink into the bottomless void of nihilism…is this idea that if we could just get the narcissist to understand what they did to us, then we could heal. But understand this the narcissists will not understand you.
So you guys separated for the umpteenth time and you feel like you want to move on. But then all of a sudden you get a text message from them asking, “Hey, how you doin’ ;)”. Now you are questioning if you can really stay separated. Well, if you are thinking about them coming back in your life…Let Your Narcissist Move Right Back In With You.
Resentment is such a wonderful feeling; isn’t it? Waking up with a headache. Having dreams about what you wish you could do to the narcissist. Taking out your anger on the kids and close relatives. All of these amazing benefits are all thanks because you keep on resenting your narcissist.
So you just went No Contact with your narcissists? And instead of moving on with your life and finding someone better; you don’t want to. You want to keep thinking about them. So, do this to keep thinking about your narcissists. Because why in the world should you ever think you can have a life outside of them?
Ah! Love. There is nothing quite like it. Love can make us feel like we are flying and it can heal in so many ways. And this is especially true for the narcissist. Despite them lacking empathy (which is a prerequisite feeling one needs to…LOVE) they can still love us. Because your love can change the narcissist.