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The Sympathetic Meaning Of Having Compassion For A Narcissist

The Sympathetic Meaning Of Having Compassion For A Narcissist

This idea that people should feel compassion for the narcissist because of their bad childhood, is such a weak argument and an enabling thought that Enabling Ed(s) constantly spout.

It is a sad event that narcissists may have had a bad childhood! It is, unfortunate, that they did not get the love of their mommy and daddy.

Life has taught me many things, and the one thing it has taught me is this…LIFE IS NOT FAIR!

Many narcs grow up being the douchebag losers they are because they NEVER LEARNED MANNERS.


And they never learned how to grow up!

This is why I called them Kidults!

Note: I was published in a book! Check out “Empathic Warriors Survival Stories : Not Your Ordinary Empath

The Sympathetic Meaning Of Having Compassion For A Narcissist

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This idea that “Oh! Boo-hoo! Boo-hoo! Woe is them for the bad childhood they had!” argument is such an enabling argument.

There are plenty of empaths out here who grew up with narc parents, YET, they don’t go around harming other people.

They know what pain is, and they do the d*mndest to try and not harm others.

If they could do that, why can’t the narc do that?

The reason is that an Empath, at their core, is a GOOD PERSON; despite all the nonsense they had to deal with growing up, they remained GOOD PEOPLE.

I believe that a narc, whether or not they had a good childhood or bad childhood, would still grow up to be the piece of S*** they are!

Destroying lives for their pleasure.

Lying and manipulating to get ahead in a race that ONLY THEY ARE IN!

To sabotage the dreams of others EVEN when that person dreams have NOTHING to do with them.

I often say that these people are losers, and they are.

They are losers at their very core.

This is why they are so spiteful, so vindictive, so petty, and so fragile of character.

They envy people, and because they are weak cowards, they seek to destroy those they perceive better than them.

So, NO.

No, we do not have to feel sorry for these jacka**es!

Just because they had a bad childhood gives them NO D*MN RIGHTNO D*MN RIGHT to destroy the lives of others who had NOTHING to do with their poor upbringing.

If we can find a reason to support their bad take on life — we d*mn sure can find reasons to tell good people not to stay with these monsters.

Disorder or not, bad upbringing or not, life seems to keep knocking them down or not — NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO DESTROY A LIFE BECAUSE THEIR LIFE WAS OR IS SH*TTY!

We need not have sympathy for people who have no understanding of what it is to have empathy! — Xavier Ludwig Click To Tweet

Struggling With C-PTSD?

I often say that living with a narcissist is like living in a war zone! This comparison may very well seem hyperbolic, but research has shown that living around narcissists can have the same effects on a person’s mind as people living in a war zone!

I wrote an article describing the “10+ Mental Illnesses Caused By Staying With Narcissists“.

These people are monsters, plain and simple.

If you are struggling with emotional flashbacks, dealing with mental and emotional battles that NO ONE but yourself seems to see and feel, and if you find it hard to get out of bed every day, you may be dealing with C-PTSD.

As great as support groups may be, or as profound as articles can be, they are no substitute for professional help. 

Sometimes the best way to heal and move forward is with therapy.

Speaking with someone and getting the hurt off your chest is a great way to unload.

Online Therapy is a site that offers visitors the chance to speak with professional therapists who will be able to help you get through your emotional and psychological battles.

If you sign up with my link, you can get 20% off your first month’s session.

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I call myself the Rational Humorist. Narcs to me are cancer to humanity. The only way to beat cancer is to fight back against it.

The best way to defeat a narc is to see them as the jokes they are.

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