Be Happy and Successful After The Narcissist Has Humiliated You
When a narcissist has humiliated you, the best thing to do is to be as happy and successful as possible. This will hurt them on a massive level.
I know this is easier said than done, but if you sink into the pity, the shame, the guilt of being played and humiliated, you let the narcissist win against you.
You have given up what is great in you because you have allowed them to define your worth.
I wrote an article titled “Let them laugh,” and I explain how you must learn how to deal with unjust hatred and teasing from toxic people.
You are such an amazing person, and to a narcissist, they cannot stand how bright you shine. They cannot stand how much glow and radiate amazement, and all effortlessly, I might add.
To a narcissist, if they can steal your light, steal your shine, feel like they are on top of the world. And to humiliate you makes them feel amazing.
To overcome that humiliation and be successful, to be able to look at your failures and laugh about them, to be someone who doesn’t care what they say, do, or think will hurt them on a massive level.
Don’t let them define who you are; define yourself.
In doing this, you show them how powerless they are, and for a narcissist that they cannot control but want to control, lose their little bit of sanity.
The best revenge is to be happy and successful. Focus on being as happy as you can and as successful as you can.